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7/14/2015 6:54 pm |
I just move on. I have my preferences... why can't they.
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7/14/2015 6:55 pm |
chalk it up to just a persons preferences! that is why they are on here so they can customize what they are looking for.
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I don't get offended at all. I don't see any reason for it. We all know what we like and don't like.
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I moved on. The more 'annoying' or 'frustrating' thing is when preferences are listed and I fit them then get no response or a "you don't fit" response. That happened some with the beard-haters. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Retired Navy, you have to try really really hard to offend me!
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I only take it personally when the profile insults facial hair. The generations younger than mine seem to harbor some prejudice against hair on the human body. My beard is older- and smarter- than many members of this site. It has also been a lot closer, a lot more times, to pussy than most of the males here. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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I moved on. The more 'annoying' or 'frustrating' thing is when preferences are listed and I fit them then get no response or a "you don't fit" response. That happened some with the beard-haters. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Job interviews are easy compared to this. And I HATE job interviews. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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We are kindred spirits. They fear and mock what they don't understand! My beard has had a lot more sex than some of these children.  "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself". FDR When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Not offended, but when they are looking for big/thick cock... I am sometimes soooooo disappointed for being merely average.  Thoughts from the Garden...
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I really do not see why you would be offended. Why should they sugar coat want they want
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It is better to know their preferences. I can't get offended when I have preferences also, mostly they need to be breathing and have a pulse, but still a preference.
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Ignore them and move on to the next. If she wants me, she can email me. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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Here's my thing: What if people don't respect your preferences? On my profile, I have on there that I'm straight & only interested in women. Yet, from time to time, I get either a hotlist or the one time from long ago, a guy emailed his ass pic to me! He said that he'd never been with a black man & that he wanted me to be his first! Needless to say, I erased the email & blocked him from ever reading my profile. I don't cam as much because there's always some dude that hits up your IM, wanting to have some "brown sugar" in him. From talking to other guys here, it's the norm for gay guys to hit up their cam, even though you don't want them to.
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Something to consider, standard members CAN'T see profiles. That still does not excuse the hateful idiots!
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7/15/2015 3:05 am |
I constantly get guys IMing me or emailing and it gets annoying. Is there any single part of my profile that says i find men attractive sexuallly? The horny ones apparently lose the ability to read.
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i may get a little disapointed but everyone is right we all have things that work for us or dont. just move on.what i find funny is when people arent looking for men but have 2 men in their preferances.
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I don't get offended, but I also don't always just move on. This doesn't mean I continuously contact them, but I may send one email or IM to say I am enjoying their cam or pictures, etc. I would never send a message to insult someone so that doesn't even enter the scenario. Just because they are not looking for my type, doesn't mean we can't be civil to one another here and say hello. This site offers very little to most users and especially men (unless you are 'perfect' - due to the sheer number of men here for women to choose from) have fewer opportunities. If i see their cam, I may send an IM saying i like what i see and appreciate them allowing me to watch. If they close cam, I move on. If they don't respond, I stop sending IM's, If they engage in the chat, I reply. I guess my question is "would this offend the person that isn't looking for my type and should i just move on?"
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I'm not bothered what people who don't know me think of me really - it is entirely up to them, although I wouldn't like it if they were bad mouthing me to other people, or making up their minds about me according to prejudices gleaned from knowing other people they assume I will resemble. But there's a really big difference between prejudice and preference. And when it comes to liking or not liking people, especially sexually, you can't help but have preferences. However, I have noticed that actually, when I start to get to know someone, if I like them for some indefinable reason, it can change my preferences. For example, I think I am usually drawn to athletic looking women, but I had a love affair once with a very big woman, and at the time I began to see that as a look I actually preferred. If you restrict who you will consider according to pre-set principles, you are bound to miss a lot of people who you might have liked. I think I am usually attracted to brunettes, but someone in my past who I was completely crazy about was actually a kind of sandy blonde. If back then we had been interacting via on line profiles and I had stated "no blondes" as a preference, maybe I would never have met her.
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8/1/2015 9:31 pm |
kind of hard not to, somehow I'm never good enough.
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Each to there own I say, there's enough to go around
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There's no reason to get offended I feel like because to someone else they might be in the position you are in.
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8/5/2015 1:40 pm |
Its all about preferences, they have theirs and we have ours. To each his own. Rather them be honest about what they're looking for than to lie and lead you on. That breeds resentment.
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8/5/2015 3:58 pm |
It's definitely personal preference for people to like and not like certain body types. I don't take it personal at all. Its all about what's enjoyable. Who wants to be with someone one they are not attracted to in the first place.
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There is initial disappointment that I dont fit the profile, but everyone is allowed to have their preferences. Unless they making derogatory comments against a certain race it does not bother me. For e.g. one lady on another site had the following in her profile " No person of so and so race or religion...I'd rather gargle drano" That was offensive to read. But otherwise profiles like BBC only or Caucasian only etc are just fine.
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I am sure everyone in here has been rejected. At first yes i was offended but now I am used to it 
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I view it as preferences, although I won't lie and say I don't roll my eyes and think things like, "what a dumbass" or "that's nicely boring and cliche" before moving on.
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Was recently chatting with a lady on here whose profile I liked, got along ok chatting , then when I sent her a face pic, I wasnt her type. Bit disappointed,but thats how life goes, just get on with it. No need to be rude.
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I don't get offended t all, I have my preferences too... why can't they.
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I don't get offended at all. To each their own! Don't settle, go out and get what you want! BTW, you're gorgeous! Great blog too! Have a great week!
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9/2/2015 2:41 pm |
I just chalk it up to thats what they like. You can't please everyone...
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I believe that its their body so it is their choice--if I don't agree there are a lot of others to seek.
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No it's better to know that your not there kind right away
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