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Interesting... I seem to attract men that love giving oral, and always have lol. OK: When I was 17 I gave oral to my kinda bf and he never did to me. Though it never even crossed my mind at the time. When I was 19 a guy went down on me... it just felt weird. His tongue was cold and it just didn't do much. But ever since then: EVERY lover I've ever had has been into giving oral as well as receiving.
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There could be "compensating factors" that come with age, but I'm not sure about that? I do know I've went down for quite sometime, helps to prime her pump, so to say. I think I'm gonna run with an old saying because I think they either went down or they didn't, earlier in age or older, Can't change the stripes of a Zebra..... ....I may be wrong though, give me some years here and I'll report back Greater Than The Sum Of My Constituent Parts!
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1/3/2015 10:14 am |
Wow, good question, and because I am now "40"...wooo hoooo, I have a better understanding of what I like and that's to give oral a lil longer than before I begin to stroke her. By the time you reach a certain age, you want to do more than just stick it, and massages with bouts of oral tasting and teasing seems to work for me. I have more to say, but you have to send me an email...Haaaa and Good Loving
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The saying "the more you give the more you get" . In my early years the women I met where not in to giving oral . (Very disappointing) . With age that changed and my interest in oral changed for the better. I found that as I lingered at giving my partner oral ( her pleasure increasing greatly) at some point her enthusiasm had no bounds and the pleasures we both experienced had few boundaries.. Yes the more the better ....................
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I didn't always like it but then again it was before people started to groom. I didn't like many women like hair in my mouth. As times changed so did I. I was dating someone who loved receiving oral. She was shaved, and could easily reach an orgasm. I loved her sweet taste, the way she moved when she had an orgasm. It only made things better between us. I do feel that as you get older things get better because your more willing to talk about what pleases both of you. We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious
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Not easy to answer and responses from men who have a healthy and active sex life will be more beneficial to you. There may be something about age or it could just boil down to experience and sexual maturity I don't think my perception of it has changed mentally, although I enjoy fingering just as much I would enjoy giving and receiving equally
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I think as you get older, you start taking into the fact you need to really please a woman, and one of the best ways is oral. It is always better to give than receive, but then again, the rewards are unequaled.
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It is more the fact that we have had the expending of time to learn to give oral as best as we can, as we have had a whole lot more experience doing it.....
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I have always given oral when I can. And ... let's face it ... as we get older "Mr Happy" doesn't always rise to the occasion and while that's not a good thing leaving a gal high and dry is even worse. As far as being on the receiving end. I've haven't met all that many that really know what they were doing down there. Sorry ... but that's been my experiences. AB No Bozos
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I like to give...going down on a female is fun...I like watching her squirm! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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I had a younger boyfriend who loved to give oral and did it sublimely and I have had an older boyfriend who really ate pussy and would do it all night if I let him. I have found that most men think that they can give good oral, but it is false. It is more than just licking the clit, it's called eating pussy for a reason. I love to give a great BJ, but a guy must reciprocate and pay attention to my directions if I start to give them. Every woman is different!! There isn't anything better than great oral sex, it's the best way to spoil a partner and let them know you are into them.
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It takes the average young man many, many years to learn about the senusal nature of being with a woman - until then its all about having that one orgasm - not the journey of getting there or how to get two or three out of the evening. The tpyical boy doesn't grown up until he's near forty and it isn't until then when he actually starts thinking about the woman he is with. For me it was very early in my teens with my second sexual experience who was over fourty at the time. It was something she said and the explaination that went along with it. Having several older sisters and overhearing things men never hear helped a lot. So, its become a passion along a journey to reaching the peak of her sensual desires. The knowledge gained was the input (effort to please her) was outweighed by the output (the amount of effort she would return in pleasing me). Every young man (and woman) should learn about oral early and that its not limited to her vagina. The third woman I was with said it right, "I'm not going do that unless you do the same". We develped a great understanding that I can say has been long lasting. They say the way to a mans heart is through his stomach... well, it depends on what she's feeding him!
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Calypso, honestly hun I think it's all about preferences, some don't like oral (iditos) and some do..And not all know how to do oral..oh they talk a good game but when it comes right down to it..NOT..lol..I loved this blog so I am glad you posted it.. For me nothing better than giving in my book and you want to turn me oh yea..thats what I am talking about...Have a great weekend hun..
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even in my teens,i was obsessed with giving a woman oral. I have always been intensely aroused by the taste and the intimacy of feeling her arousal so sharply with my tongue. receiving is ok,but giving is my primary interest. and,certainly,as we men age and our ability to get it up begins to diminish,giving oral is an obvious choice
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I love to go down on a woman and I always have. Indeed it's a massive turn on for me and always has been - along with fingering In fact I have avoided women on this site just because they say on their profile that they do not enjoy receiving oral - giving is such an important aspect of sex for me that I just couldn't see myself enjoying being with a woman who didn't let me go down on her!
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I have always been one to be willing to go down on a woman; even from a young age. I love to have a woman shaking, kicking, screaming, and breathless before I release my lips from her clit. So, no heeled shoes in bed; I do not want a stiletto stuck in my back. Smart as a rock, strong as a marshmallow, and hung like a flea. Now, don't that make me sexy? Visit my blog, NudeDon69 Check out the 'Half Naked Wednesday' bloggers HNW Bloggers and 'My Rich Chick Naughty Community' AFF Naughty Community.
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I think you did get the wrong impression. It was a "must NOT" in advance from them. It isn't even a question of gaining trust or a level of intimacy before allowing it (that I'd be happy with) it's an outright statement that she doesn't like it and won't have it. But I suppose it is a "must in advance" in that I do want to go down on my partners... for me it's an integral part of sex and I couldn't imagine not doing it.
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1/4/2015 8:09 pm |
Very sensual!
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Difficult to answer that one.... I loved it when I was younger and still love as I've grown older.... Maybe I spend a little longer on it, but I think thats because ladies love it more (or have the honesty to say they do)?? Anyway, whatever the reasons there is nothing wrong with that past-time Mark xxx
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1/5/2015 10:30 am |
When I had my first lover, I was too young to understand giving pleasure as a sensual reward in itself. Quickly after that I learned to pleasure a woman orally and kept at it to hone my skills, now I cannot get enough.
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I love Oral, not just Cunnilingus, but worshiping a woman from Head to Foot. Sad to say that many young men are only interested in getting their rocks off, I may also have been guilty of that in my youth. However with age comes experience, and I have learned to appreciate that foreplay can be slow and extensive, to the enjoyment of both parties. Libido does perhaps play a small part, but thanks to my Doctor and a little Blue Pill, it is no longer a problem. Visit my Blog Older but no Wiser and find out more
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As one gets older one starts to take control of which head has control . As I have aged I realize that it is not all about my satisfaction but to pleasure my partner and then the rest will come naturally. Kisses
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1/7/2015 7:00 pm |
A twofold answer to this one, first as I grew older I realized making sure my partner came was important. It not only took care of her but because I did it and made sure she came she was more than willing to take of me. Second, another I grew older I didn't always function like a 20 year old and again taking care of her in some way was the key to her taking care of me.
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I love giving oral and yes maybe more now than when I was younger. I love the control I have and once she thinks she cant cum anymore............. that's when I like to start the real fun !!
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I can't say what I enjoy more. These are different kinds of pleasure. Receiving is physical, giving is more emotional. As for the age, it's really simple: younger people have more prejudices. They feel insecure and might even think it's "inappropriate"...
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i think as you get older (and by default have more sexual experiences with different types of women) you find that every woman is different in what she likes and does like, how she likes to be touched, what makes her orgasm, etc.....and over time you come across more women that have difficulty having an orgasm through regular intercourse. it's in those cases you have to have oral skills in the "repertoire" or let's face it...you don't make her come you don't get invited back...lol. and as a result, i think you find over time (as i do for i love going down on women and making them cum) how erotic and a turn on it is to go down on a woman. there is nothing hotter than having a woman grab the back of you head, grind herself into your face, feel the extra wetness on your lips and tongue while her vaginal muscles clamp down hard on your fingers while she moans your name...there is no orgasm that i have ever had that compares to the feeling i get when i make a woman do that
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I have found that the older men who are the most skilled in oral, get to demonstrate those skills while waiting for that little blue pill to kick in.
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It is a pleasure to give, and I've been doing it since I started having sex, feeling the pleasure grow in your partner slowly until it explodes in an intense orgasm is one of the most exciting faces of sex, not worrying about your own pleasure at that moment lets you concentrate on giving to your partner in the best way you can. Aequat homnes cinis (Seneca)
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I think most young men what to lick it but they just think that anything will work when licking the kitty. I dated a bi girl for several years and was taught by her girlfriend on how to do the deed! When you are a younger man you think of how you are going to get off…the whole time. As you age you find that if you put more into foreplay you will get more out of the back end!
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Love giving oral as pleasing a lady wants is very important..
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I absolutely love pleasuring a woman orally. For me, making a woman cum that way is a HUGE turn on. I like to see how many times I can get a woman to cum. I don't know that age has that much to do with it, unless you're talking about a really young guy who maybe has never done it before. It mainly has to do with the personality and attitude of the guy. If they guy wants to make sure the woman enjoys herself, then he'll do what he can to get her off. But from what a lot of women have told me, a lot of guys just don't care. They're in it for themselves only and don't care if the woman enjoys herself or not. To me, that's just a terrible attitude and not what sex is about. I mean, if you want a woman to come back for a 2nd round, you should try to make sure she has a reason to.
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When I was 19 I realized that I was always going to get mine but there was no assurance that she would get hers so I wanted to try to make sure she got hers or at least enjoyed the trip to her ultimate enjoyment. It wasn't long after that I realized that the ultimate orgasm came from knowing that she was enjoying my oral ministrations and that I would cum from doing that to her as well. This has been my motto- LADIES FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!! I love getting head as it's the ultimate gift a woman can bestow (other than her cherry) especially if she swallows afterwards.
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I always loved performing oral sex and I agree with you that I am taking more time now simply because I just love it and just want to do it more and better too. I prefer giving....
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I have enjoyed going down on my girlfriends since my late teen years. It is even better today because I love it when I know my partner is enjoying it and getting into it. Maybe its just better because I've gotten better over the years.
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I think it's about the fact that as you get older .......you are more about pleasuring your partner and making sure she is satisfied.........once you realize she likes it......it's even better when she returns the favor
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1 post 1/14/2015 6:45 pm |
From my perspective, A younger me was interested in issuing straight pipe and showing any & every female that I was good for the stickin. Wasn't until I got experience with different women that I learned to get good with not only the stickin but the lickin!
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When a man says he prefers giving oral and satisfying his partner that way (as I've seen written in many profiles)...I tend to wonder if this is the only guaranteed way it will work....he's not getting it up as well as he used to. Personally, I seldom have a sexual encounter that doesn't include mutual oral stimulation no matter what our ages are...however, being old, maybe it's just something I expect.
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I never stopped.I think what most guys won't admit is that they better get it right when they get older since there may be times that their big head is going to have to perform.All women like it different that's when experience is more of a common sense thing. Using more than all the road!
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I am not sure, my friend for some reason does not enjoy it when I go down on her, she prefers to have me masturbate her. I am not sure if she thinks it is dirty or my scruff irritates her. If a pussy is clean shaven or nicely trimmed and clean, I do not mind taking some licks at the clit.
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1/15/2015 8:16 pm |
I have always enjoyed giving oral...I feel I can read a woman's body better and a tounge and finger can do things that penetration can't do.... But there are times that some women want to be taken and pounded... I'm all about whatever it takes to please a woman...as for what I like done to me ..there is nothing better than oral...
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1 post 1/18/2015 9:00 am |
Erections are not as reliable as when I was younger. If you can't cut the mustard lick the jar! The more excited the lady is the better my erection lasts. Thank god for that little blue pill!
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My take on it is, when you are young you are immature & more selfish about your own pleasure which from a man's perspective at that age is only through intercourse. As he matures he understands that there is more pleasure in giving as it is returned with interest hence he starts exploring more & also the fact that numbers are no longer his priority. Making a woman cum just by licking is one of the most pleasurable sight I have ever seen.
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With time and experience you get better at sex, like most activities....
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First time I went down on a girl I was seventeen in the front seat of a Mercury, and I never stopped. But as I got older and wiser I realized it's all about her enjoyment. When she's happy, we're all happy. Besides that the taste and feel is to be savored and enjoyed, like fine wine.
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1/21/2015 9:22 am |
I t amazing that when you go down on some woman they cum so quick
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nothing like eating a pussy. It is so hot to hear her moans and groans and to feel her arch her back when she cums and to taste her cum is great
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Age may have something to do with it I guess over time guys learn to give more be more involved with partner willingness to explore the hump and shoot routine I love giving and receiving oral
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Personally, I enjoyed eating pussy fron the time I learned what it was. And it' s true that back then, few were shaved. Always liked it, although not all my partners were always happy when I wanted to do it, decrying "I'm not clean." Well honey, that's MY call. If it not palatable, I'll stop! As I've gotten older, my oral desires HAVE increased and I now enjoy sucking cock too. This seems to be rather common to grow into for a lot of guys.
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I can tell you that I have always enjoyed giving oral to my partners. This is primarily because when I was first introduced to sex at age twelve my baby sitter told me how much she liked it. She also told me that If I always made sure that the woman was please I would never be without pussy. Now at a much more advanced age I can truly say that I not only enjoy giving but I especially enjoy it when the woman gets off. It is an awesome feeling.
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Respect is earned. Honesty is appreciated. Trust is gained. Loyalty is returned Oral is to each their own,,, my opinion is it goes well with foreplay,,
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1 post 1/27/2015 7:09 am |
Whilst I enjoy giving, the feeling of being responsible for the squirming body pressed against me, legs bucking, moans bouncing off the walls, and have been giving since my first sexual experience, I enjoy receiving more. If my partner ever said "your choice who receives" I'd choose me. Why?, because I REALLY enjoy oral sex. But for me to enjoy it has to be given freely not a chore. That view hasn't changed with time, and is also why I enjoy giving. So we both enjoy sex.
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I ain't as good once was, But I'm as good once, as I ever was.
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1/28/2015 1:56 pm |
i've always enjoyed giving oral, most times more than receiving so i don't think it has anything to do with age. maybe your like those women who always go for the man who likes to beat them and you dont know why? or maybe your just infatuated with young men and they know this so why would they go down on you? if your every in my town i would love to give you all the oral you like just to make you and i happy no return favors need.
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I saw my first porn movie when I was about 15. the one scene that stuck with me was when the male star was eating the female star's pussy. the way she moaned and squirmed fascinated me. about a year later I got to actually get a taste. being able to generate those moans and squirms myself was very arousing to me. in almost 35 years of practice, I like to think of myself as an exceptionally cunning linguist. I do also enjoy receiving oral sex, but I do prefer to be in the 69 position during.
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I think older men tend to listen so they are a little more receptive to what their woman want.
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A female view... a bit related to age, some men start to have trouble getting it up already at 40 (stress, overweight, underlying heart condition, dropping testosterone levels etc), yet they surely love sex, moving to oral (and massage) is one option. And I suppose some realise it's not only about taking, many women orgasm only through clitoral stimulation, not through penetration. Guess it's also a bit like food: you have to eat something for a while before you can start to enjoy it Only universal or also in Scotland Where to start my day or is it month Of course I39ll change I39ll do whatever you like Heatseeking missiles Squirter's life
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I like to give oral more than receive it. I just love the softness, the smell, how you can feel the intensity slowly building up until the finale. The taste is even great usually slightly sweet in my experience. I think the reason I don't enjoy blowjobs very much is because my first gf that I had a sexual relationship did it once in two years stopped so many times to tell me not to cum in her mouth that I didn't end up finishing at all. Then the next day she tried to guilt me saying her throat was sore. blahh oh well it' in the past
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The first time I ever tasted a girls pussy I was 17, she was 16. I knew then the taste was ok. As I age, I enjoy eating pussy more now than then. I am 62, Barb is 68 now and she more less needs oral about every day. When we are sleeping together, she likes to wake me up either rubbing my cock or sucking on me, which gets me hard very fast in the morning. I in turn like to get my face between her legs while she is in deep sleep and wake her to a ringing wet orgasm. When I do that, she is horny all day.
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