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What does FWB Mean To You?  

rm_maam2you 51F
48 posts
2/14/2015 1:56 pm
What does FWB Mean To You?

I see a lot of people posting that they want a FWB, but I have noticed that many of my contacts have a different idea of what that means than I do.

What does 'Friend With Benefits' mean to you?
I am female, it means I like you enough to fuck you, but don't push for more.
I am female, it means I want to do things outside the bedroom, but don't expect actual dates.
I am female, it means we are friends who just happen to end up in bed regularly.
I am male, it means I like you enough to fuck you, but don't push for more.
I am male, it means I want to do things outside the bedroom, but don't expect actual dates.
I am male, it means we are friends who just happen to end up in bed regularly.
I am female, it means all of the above.
I am male, it means all of the above.
Other. Please explain in the comments.


camper789 69M
2380 posts
2/16/2015 5:22 am

Good morning. Someone to hang out with and do things with once in awhile, and share some intimacy now and then.


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
2/16/2015 7:47 am

it means we are friends who just happen to end up in bed regularly.

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markcorvallis2 64M
800 posts
2/16/2015 2:50 pm

i picked " I am male, it means we are friends who just happen to end up in bed regularly" but it doesn't even have to be regularly. it might only happen a few times in the friendship. when the situation is right you just end up naked and fucking just cause it feels good and you like the person you are with, it doesn't mean you are in a relationship or anything just that sex feels good and you want to enjoy it with this person at this time.


TravelingMan524 71M
241 posts
2/17/2015 1:11 am

. To me "friend" is the key word here.
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I seldom have sex just for the sex.
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With a FWB they may not want to try anal in a giant bowl of jello but they also won't judge you if that is your kinky desire.


comeandgetii014 71M
5 posts
2/17/2015 8:18 am

doesn't the word friend mean something other then just sex??


Tarza51 82M

2/17/2015 3:13 pm

To me a FWB is a friend you can rely on to pick your spirits up when you are down and be on going physical lovers when you both want it!


leo27895 56M
57 posts
2/17/2015 5:34 pm

Well , I think all of the above what People have wrote but I think it also includes giving them MONEY.


rm_maam2you replies on 2/19/2015 1:46 pm:
What? Why would money be involved?

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/17/2015 11:31 pm

It's basically an acronym made up by someone that doesn't have a boyfriend or girlfriend.They want their friends to believe they are sexually active but they aren't. It's used more widely nowadays in hopes that people won't assume you are gay.So all the comments and beliefs are merely conjecture.
Some great answers though!

Using more than all the road!


youngnfree1977 46M/39F
1 post
2/18/2015 5:33 am

I think a fwb is a person who is there to help take care of your physical needs without the hassle of a relationship


partnersincarnal 69M
262 posts
2/18/2015 5:50 am

For me, friends with benefits means friends who share common interests in and out of the bedroom, someone who drops by to spend some time, watch a game or movie, get some takeout and when the moods strikes both of us (although to be honest, that mood is a constant for me), have mutually satisfying sex. [3582661]


Coasterfan1969 55M  
115 posts
2/18/2015 5:08 pm

FWB: Friends with Benefits. To me that means a certain amount of intimacy, meaning that its not just a one night stand. Friendship means getting to know the person you are hanging out with, likes and dis-likes and needs and desires, both inside the bedroom and outside the bedroom.


cozzycouple 66M/66F  
588 posts
2/19/2015 12:19 am

Someone who will have sex with me, when I require and be nice and polite at other times when I talk with them. Milly. Like when Milly says "I am on top today" answer is "Yes, Master"


rm_maam2you 51F
10 posts
2/19/2015 1:51 pm

I must not be doing something right. My guys on here have been a bang 'em and get out and I screen very well. They'll feed me some line about being busy repeatedly. They might even contact me afterward more than once, but then their is no follow through.


honeydipt4u 65F
122 posts
2/19/2015 8:41 pm

    Quoting  :

i thought sex with someone quarterly or biannually was being married.

thats what the married men on here tell me anyway.


golosa1115 62F
1066 posts
2/19/2015 9:57 pm

FWB a friend that I can talk to without a filter, with whom I can hang out at the movies, lounge or restaurant...and if in need of sex either or can depend on each other. Sex on a regular basis. I had one guy like that for almost 2 yrs, still could if I chose to but I discontinue it cause I started seeing someone else. However I have gotten a different meaning from man mostly a text here and there once or twice a month and sex upon an invitation that I am missed. No outside rendezvous, No real communication. No eating, drinking basically sex. Which falls I think under NSA


sika41 62M
643 posts
2/19/2015 10:50 pm

Friend that I end up fucking regularly


Passionseek01000 56M
27 posts
2/20/2015 5:04 pm

FWB to me is someone you truly care about, can hang out together, have great sex but you know you just couldn't commit or live with that person. I'll explain! I have 2 sets of dinnerware, 2 sets of silverware, 2 wine glasses but only one coffee cup. I'll wine ya, dine ya and 69 ya but don't be here in the morning. BUT you can cum hang out again next week.


maverick9869 56M
8 posts
2/21/2015 4:45 am

To me it's a friend I can hang out with have a few drinks movies and a good conversation when needed, and of course sex when both have the urge.


Jim345PA 63M

2/21/2015 8:27 am

I've always felt that FWB was where two people generally like each other and might share a common interest or two. They spend time together pursuing those interests whether they be an occasional movie, perhaps meeting for a drink or coffee, going shopping or doing something like visit a museum or event together. It would also include a sexual relationship that coexists with the shared interest and friendship. If it evolves into you only meet for sex or one of the friends starts lovingly using terms of endearment like, babe, dear, darling, sugar, or sweetie, then it's straying far from FWB. There is nothing wrong with having a fuck buddy or two, just like there is nothing wrong with having more of a relationship than FWB but if one of the participants only wants FWB then it's best to just end it before it gets messy or complicated. I have a FWB but lately she has been pushing for sex every time we meet AND has started lovingly using terms of endearment and wants a relationship as well. Time to find a new FWB I think.


trisha_ann_glynn 51T
1982 posts
2/28/2015 2:16 pm

It means friends with wealth and influence.
Friends that invite you on vacations, bestow political favors.
Present excellent gifts, and give inside information.

All that other FWB nonsense is casual sex.


LickerBull 59M
2 posts
3/1/2015 3:46 am

Not very surprisingly, here in India we have different meaning of FWB, which is entirely different.
Here "benefit" means money/cash!
"I am a female, ready to go to bed with you, but you will have to pay me"
"We are a couple, single male can join us in our bed for a threesome, but he will have to pay us fees"
"I am a male, so eager to fuck any goddamn woman that I am ready to pay for it!"
Fuck "friends"! The Indian site is slowly becoming a gateway to earn some extra bread by most of the women and the couple members..


SxyBlkScorpio1 47M

3/31/2015 7:25 pm

What's better than having a friend you can hangout with and have sex with too!! The best of both worlds.


sirarnhem 84M
24 posts
4/12/2015 10:36 pm

I would like FWB to mean friends AND winding up in bed regularly though not living together. Unfortunately my circumstance allows time (usually) only for the in-bed benefits.


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