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man back in high school I was a total ass
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It was 7-12 year stretches without sex due to lack of interest on his part. Low T. Disabled. No drive at all. Finally gave permission to play tho. Theres a lot of people with health problems who cant. AND Those with mental problems seem to be the most fertile anyways.
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Having been on both sides of it, here's the conclusion I've come to: The reason is never the reason. If I had to pin it down, I would argue that an affair is done to meet an unmet need. However, if we knew precisely what the problem was, we'd fix it and not resort to artificial substitutes. If you asked me minutes after it happened, I'd give the first answer, "I temporarily lost my mind." However, in retrospect, there was a clear pattern of behavior in the months leading up to it where this was the inevitable conclusion. Saying it was a momentary lapse is a mental defense mechanism ... it is flat out denial. Affair sex is never all that good. The exciting part is the thrill leading up to it, not the act itself. The sex is almost always better at home. It is stressful. There is constant looking over your shoulder. The secrecy catches up to you. So it doesn't solve the boring life aspects or the needing new experiences excuse. Not getting enough at home is the usual excuse people go with, but it's a line of crap. "I didn't get Need X filled, so I'm entitled to take Action Y." That's self-serving logic. Narcissists think that way. I can go one by one through all the excuses ... the only one I can't call BS on is "I'm just a really crappy person." That's a hard one to admit. That's the one that ultimately got me back on the right track. I didn't want to be that person anymore. No pillow is more comfortable than a clean conscience.
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Well I Admit To Hooking Up With More Than One Married Cheater Providing HIS Sexual Needs Not Recieved At Home From The Wife. I'm Very Discreet And Not Into Wrecking Anybody's Marriage For Sure...!!!
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Had a brief affair. Deeply regret it. But I don't regret the divorce that followed. I regret that I wasn't more of a man to face the situation straight on.
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Didn't feel loved any longer, and needed to feel something again.
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