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7/20/2017 6:53 pm |
As a married guy who comes on this site to meet with company married or not I don't discriminate as usually there are reasons why one seeks to look further afield. Mine are that whilst my relationship is sound it lacks a certain something and has done for many years. Now before you all get on your high horse and fire off the usual cheater replies let me add to the tale . One day about 3 years ago I came home unannounced as I worked close by, my partner had the day off. I came in to the house via the garage and as I entered the hall way she rather hurriedly came out of the bedroom closing the door behind her saying that she had been having a lie in. I guess looking back I was quite niave to things and allowed her to distract me into going through to the kitchen and even talking about some minor changes to the backyard and it never occured to me something was amiss. The next morning I was putting some of my clothes into the wash basket in the laundry when I noticed a pair of mens underwear along with socks that weren't mine. As there are only the two of us living in the house, and the kids are long gone of course I asked the obvious whose are these and what the fuck are they doing in the washing basket question but was only met with a blank stare and a "I don't know how they got there" answer. It didn't take me long to put 2+2 together. but I thought if that's how it is, then that's how it is. So things were left unsaid, I'm open and understanding to her needs, if she was to ask me I'd give her the green light hell I'd want him to come over for a threesome. So if she wants extra that's ok and if that's the case I will have my extra also. She can go on her 4-5 shopping trips and I have my time also. She's happy and so am I. End of.
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I have been single for many years by choice. For the last eleven years, due to a family commitment, I was unable to entertain, and basically watched my sex life go down the tubes. After being on a couple of adult dating sites, I began to explore various opportunities. A number of the companions that I connected with were attached. I am very discreet, and respectful, and I think deeply before involving myself with an attached woman. I need to be comfortable in my mind that it is something that she has thought out thoroughly, and not just acting on a whim. I also tended to gravitate to attached women who were neglected, rather than those just reacting to opportunity. If the male half is making a concerted effort to please his woman, I tend to stay away out of respect. But if he is neglectful, I tend to want to help out a lady with needs. But I ALWAYS make sure that the parameters are clear. I will not be the reason for them leaving their relationship. I guess in summary, I believe that we all have the right to have our needs met without someone being judgmental of our behavior. If we put the rules in place at the onset, and we respect our boundaries, no one should get hurt. Happy hunting
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I have never been with anyone married. I have cheated and been cheated on, both happened with my first ex. We hooked up last year, she was friends with my late wife and also knew I was in a 5yr dry spell. Now I'm on my own and if I hook up, it wouldn't bother me if the person is married, I know what it's like to go without.
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Just once...A couple I knew...He offered me his wife in exchange for my car for the evening...The whole situation was bizarre...To the max...After about three hours he returned with my car...Proceeded to tell me everything he thought was wrong with it...I was tempted but refrained from giving his wife a critique...Never again...Not my kind of fun...
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7/21/2017 12:47 am |
Not being the attractive sort of man, I don't get any propositions from women married or otherwise. But if I did, being more the beggar than the chooser, if there was any attraction at all I don't think that it would bother me in the least. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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And I am a married man on this site, looking for a FWB for the sex I do not get at home. I am straight up about being married, and that does turn some women off. If my wife took care of me at home, I would not be looking. Look at my profile if you wish nicebuttocks1950, and my blog, married women lacking at home. .
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Yeah, I've been with several married women. One such affair lasted for years. If a lady is in a loveless/sexless marriage that she cannot end for offspring, financial or other reasons and the husband is unaware or turns a blind eye, then why not? I used to feel guilty about it, but when a woman is so much more happy and satisfied than she would otherwise have been and nobody gets hurt, I don't see a need for self recrimination at all.
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7/21/2017 5:30 am |
Thanks for your thoughful reply and also for having a great blog that gives those that want to a chance to express there thoughts that may otherwise go unexpressed. I wish more people on these sites would take the less judgemental approach as mostly everyone has a story of some description that led them to be here. Anyways keep up the great blog its really a cool thing.👍
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7/21/2017 5:45 am |
Well tbh this is the first time that Ive really felt comfortable enough to be open and share my thoughts. This seems to be the right platform to do that as your posts are well thought out and thought provoking. (Well at least for me and it seems many others also)......Not to mention your pics are outstanding. Lol👍😉
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7/21/2017 6:17 am |
Cant wait to read what you come up with next 😉x
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