ON HOLD FOR PLAYING but trying to find time again.... We are a couple who have been together for ten years. We have gone to a few events and so far have had a blast. We have swapped a few times so far and we both enjoyed the fun. So basically we are still a little newbie ish to this, which is why we are really stressing the friends first approach as it seems to us a logical place to start and if something happens it happens, if not well then at least we still have some friends to hang out with. We don't mind traveling, would rather meet somewhere public for coffee, drinks, etc. before we host or be hosted I guess. We do have a family so spontaneous hookups aren't really a feasible thing. We prefer to do planning so that our free time can be used to its maximum. So if your 60+ miles away know that chances are slim that we are gonna be able to get together. Prefer people our age but are open minded to those who are older as long as your not her grandpa (like seriously). Has to be some connection there, and we come as a pair. Side note we do have a cat so those with allergies sorry, we now own our own house so we can host but we still want to meet and greet before we fully host. We have recently talked it over and have decided to forgo soft swap unless it is what the other couple (or single) want, and are opening ourselves to full swap opportunities. That being said we do require condoms for full contact activities. Him (from her perspective): Tall, brown hair, glasses, fun, outgoing, smart/intelligent. He is a very light social drinker. Her (from his perspective): Short but not to short, short hair, sport loving, when you get her going watch out, recently started getting into her naughty side. She is a social drinker as well. As a note here her bi-curious side is more receiving oriented then giving. She is ok with a woman giving her oral or playing with her breasts, pussy, etc. and she is ok with sucking another woman's breasts or playing with her pussy but she isn't ok with doing oral on another woman (for now, could change or it might not). More about us, we like to go out to eat occasionally when we can push it into the budget, we also like going out to the movies if there is something good playing, we like to go for drives (sometimes an hour or two), recently really started getting into camping (tenting), we do like to stay in and watch Netflix if nothing else is going on(usually our nightly routine), going to sound nerdy but we play games, and watch anime also. Any questions, don't be afraid to ask. He can play alone if everyone gets along.

My Ideal Person Looking for conversation, maybe drinks and dinner, perhaps a game night, with another couple or singles to see if things click. Looking for friends first, and go from there.

We have some fantasies we want to try out at some point so being open minded about things is a huge plus.

We are looking for single men and women as well.

With that being said..... Single guys if you message/im us make sure you sell yourself right. Make us want to message or meet you. Not just she's hot lets bang, or I am in your area every third full moon so we should meet up. Put some effort in, let us know what your looking for and what to expect.

We want to discuss what our boundaries are before hand if (or when) we move on to other activities. Would like to find people with similar interests, good personalities, no drama, etc. Not opposed to first time playing but the moon and stars would have to be aligned and everything clicks perfectly.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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