I'm a 47 year old female who seeks a single man. I am newly back into the dating scene after many years of not dating. I had some of life's commitments I needed to take care of before I could be in a place to date. At the moment I am not sure which direction I want to take any type of relationship. I do know I want male company with the possibility of adult benefits if the mood strikes us both. I do not want a one night stand nor do I want sex on the first outing. <br> I am not one to brag about myself and tend to tone it further down than I really should. I guess that makes me modest. However, I do tell the truth about myself and I will not lead someone to believe something of me that I am not. <br> I am 47 years old and I am wrinkled around the edges. Sorry guys I didn't get my dad's beautiful skin genes. I feel I have a good and fun personality to where one might over look the flaws. I am large, (what I feel is large) and I sag in a few places (one tends to do that when older and larger.) I gained 60 pounds when I quit smoking and I am actively trying to lose that weight and then some. I''ve relapsed back to smoking not to long ago and I am trying to quit again. I have my slip moments and have a smoke. <br> I had a hair coloring accident some months ago so I only have about 1.5 inches of hair on my head of a natural medium ash blonde. Never ever change colors like I did. I loved to color my hair to match my mood for the quarter. I was blonde, red, auburn, brown, and then platinum. It was the stripping the color from the brown to platinum that burnt the hair. Right now I'm dealing with cowlicks all over my head. So I do look somewhat of a sight. <br> I would love to say I am great in bed - being great in bed is really up to the person I am in bed with. What is great for one is not great for another. I will say I love sex, being touched, cuddles, and soft tender kisses that could turn into heated passion filled kisses. If you nibble or lick my neck I will follow you just about anywhere. Stand behind me and play with my neck - Oh Yeah! <br> I am a good listener yet I can also fill your ears. Depending on the company I keep will depend on the topics I will bone up on. I do enjoy current events and politics and playing a game I like to call "If I were President I would ---" If I find a topic I am passionate about I become very animated in my body language. I always ask how your day was and even if I don't understand some technical aspects I can still be a wonderful listening board. <br> Now for activies I enjoy - <br> I like watching movies in the theater or at home - I don't'care for some action movies and no horror movies. <br> I like to dance even if I do have two left feet and step on a toe now and then. <br> I enjoy the theater and symphony. I can sit through opera only while in the company of someone who is willing to nudge me awake. <br> I enjoy the company of people who are positive, full of life's energy and know how to relax. <br> I love to travel and someday I would love to ride a train for a trip. <br> I am willing to drive to Las Vegas, Laughlin/ Bullhead area for the right male company.

My Ideal Person I am seeking a single male - please no married men.
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I would like someone with a positive attitude and good public
manners. This person must be willing to build a friendship
and trust first - unless there is a strong and mutual attraction
then we can talk. In other words if you have a gentleness
about you and can get me to feel all soft, wet, and gushy inside
on the first meeting you have a good chance of getting lucky
- If not then you will have to wait until meeting two or three.
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NOTICE!! I do not wish to have a one night stand ***
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My perfect buddy would like to cuddle while watching a movie,
televistion, or having a good conversation about current
events or real life stuff. Also, occasionally when together
kid enough to do some fun things like riding a roller coaster,
flying kites, playing tag, or tickles.
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I do prefer hanging with non-smokers or light smokers.
As I said above I am trying to quit again since my relapse.
I would like this person to be tolerant if I slip and also
be supportive if I'm having a moment and needing a hug
until a craving passes.
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I am drug, desease free, practice safe sex only and no criminal
record (speeding and parking tickets don't count)
and I expect the same from my adult buddy. If you have issues
with any of these four things then please don't waste
our time.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Toby Keith, Rod Stewart, Charo, Blue Man Group, Clint Black

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