I am an enthusiastic conversationalist with a wry sense of humour. I prefer my buddy to be a power-packed individual who has no inhibition to unleash unabashedly passions that drive us to the pinnacle of pleasure. i am a fore-play freak.I like seductive preludes by dwelling on known and unexplored erogenous zones with mutual regard and respect.Prolonged fore-plays using my lips, tongue and fingers liberally in all crevices and orifices have been found exciting by my buddies. I can be dominant or submissive depending on the situational specifics. I am a lethal combo of sense,sensibility and sensitivity on the one hand and stamina,strength and sustainability on the other. In short,I hold out the promise of a an ecstatic sexperience in a relaxed ambience to those women of a certain class and calibre who want better coital encounters and a lot more of the same.But I am not a mere testesterone-triggered ' wham bam,thank you maam 'type.I am cerebral indeed just as I am sensual. I am a widower without any encumbrance. 4 years of widowhood have pushed me to the precipice and i discovered new vistas of individuality and sexuality in the pursuit of happiness.When i look back on the past from the vantage-point on the platform of the present,i genuinely feel that i had denied my body the immense pleasures inherent in swinging with kindred souls. Seeking wholesome sex with those who share cultural and intellectual chemistry and connect is a continuous process;one has to invest time and effort in defining and refining the contents and contours of consensual sex,much like an accomplished crooner who will always have to understand the mind of the composer,mood of the g and meter of the tune before singing. Consensual sex is cathartic and indeed theutic , a veritable tonic against all toxic effects of age-related,life style-dictated,stress-induced systemic disorders.Why are we then holding back?''knowing is not enough;we must apply,willing is not enough;we must do''. Do not let age catch up with us. .Always remember what Oprah Winfrey said,''it is confidence in our bodies,minds and spirits that allows us to keep looking for new adventures,new directions to grow in and new less to learn-- which is what life is all about''.''Life is like riding a bicycle.-to keep your balance,you must keep moving.''so said Albert Einstein.In'Lady Chatterley's Lover',D H Lawrence said,''a woman has to live her life,or live to repent not having lived it''

My Ideal Person BROAD-MINDED,BINDAAZ,BRAVE-HEARTED FREE-WILLED FUN-SEEKING WOMEN PREFERABLY ABOVE 40 YRS OR ATTACHED/MARRIED COUPLES IN THE 40+ BRACKET WHO ARE SEXUALLY ADVENTUROUS,TURNED ON BY THE THE THRILL OF THE SO CALLED 'ILLICIT'

BEING A SAPIO-SEXUAL,I AM EXCITED MORE BY THE GREY MATTER BETWEEN YOUR EARS BEFORE PLUNGING INTO WHAT IS BETWEEN YOUR LEGS...BRAIN OVER GROIN !

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A remote wilderness spot, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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